In the words of Mahatma Gandhi, “The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.” This quote encapsulates the profound significance of forgiveness, especially in the character of great individuals. Choosing forgiveness over revenge elevates our souls and leads to multiple victories. It pleases the Creator, unburdens us from vengeful emotions, and surprisingly, helps us triumph over others. This virtue is not only cherished by Gandhi but is also deeply ingrained in the teachings of the beloved Prophet Muhammad [PBUH].In the vast Arabian desert, there once lived a powerful and proud ruler named Thumamah ibn Uthal. He led a mighty tribe, commanding respect and fear. However, his life took a dramatic turn when a letter arrived at his palace—an invitation to embrace Islam, sent by none other than the Prophet Muhammad [PBUH] himself.Thumamah’s initial reaction was not curiosity but anger and defiance. He saw this invitation as a challenge to his authority and a threat to his way of life. Filled with rage, he plotted to murder the Prophet [PBUH], leading to the brutal killing of some of the Prophet’s companions. His heart was consumed by vengeance, and he was determined to harm the mission of the Prophet [PBUH] at any cost.But destiny had other plans for Thumamah. He was captured by a group of the Prophet’s companions and brought to the mosque in Medina, where he was tied to a pillar, awaiting the Prophet’s judgment.On the first day of his captivity, Thumamah was given a chance to see the face of the Prophet [PBUH], who approached him with kindness and patience. However, Thumamah, still consumed by anger, refused to acknowledge the Prophet’s presence and insulted him in front of numerous companions. Nevertheless, the Prophet Muhammad [PBUH], displaying forgiveness and mercy, stopped his companions from seeking revenge.The second day brought more of the same, as Thumamah remained obstinate, continuing to hurl insults at the companions. Once again, the Prophet’s mercy prevailed, preventing any harm from befalling Thumamah.On the third day, Thumamah was offered a tour of the beautiful city of Medina, built by the Prophet [PBUH] himself. Yet, he declined, mocking the city and its inhabitants. The companions were ready to take drastic action, but the Prophet Muhammad [PBUH] restrained them once more.Thumamah knew his days were numbered, for he had killed innocent Muslims. However, to his astonishment, the Prophet [PBUH] forgave him and ordered his release, instructing him to return to his wife and children.As Thumamah rode away on his camel, the weight of his actions and the profound mercy of the Prophet [PBUH] weighed heavily on his heart. He stopped near a water source to water his camel and wash his face. In that moment of reflection, his conscience stirred. He realized the incredible forgiveness and compassion shown to him by the Prophet Muhammad [PBUH], who had every reason to punish him. He felt compelled to return and accept Islam, recognizing the Prophet [PBUH] as a true messenger of God. Thus, forgiveness transformed a staunch enemy of Islam into a devout Muslim.Forgiveness carries numerous benefits, freeing us from the burden of grudges, reducing stress, and promoting emotional well-being. It fosters healthier relationships, resolves conflicts, and builds empathy. Additionally, it can have positive effects on physical health. Forgiveness paves the way for personal growth, enhanced relationships, and a more fulfilling life. It has the power to turn enemies into lifelong companions.In the words of the Messenger of Allah [PBUH], “Charity does not decrease wealth. No one forgives, but Allah increases him in honor, and no one humbles himself before Allah but Allah raises him in status.”
