Understanding the True Importance of Marriage
Sahil Manzoor Bhatti
Alhamdulillah, Allah has blessed me with a life partner, and the day I married my beloved wife became one of the most memorable days of my life. Marriage, as a concept and as a covenant, has existed for thousands of years. It is not merely a ritual or a social custom—it is a sacred contract between two individuals who choose each other with sincerity, love and faith. Every religion across the world acknowledges the importance of marriage and encourages men and women to build families, support one another and contribute to the continuity of human life.
Across cultures and continents, societies have framed laws, norms and traditions to honour marriage. While the customs may differ, the essence remains the same: marriage brings dignity, balance, companionship and security to human life. Islam places particular emphasis on marriage, calling it a blessing from Almighty Allah. Without this blessing, a person’s life often feels incomplete, for companionship is a natural human need.
Human existence gives meaning to the world. Without people, this world would be lifeless and empty. Reproduction and family building are essential not only for emotional fulfilment but also for sustaining population growth. Balanced birth and death rates ensure stability in society, economy and national development.
Every living organism—from single-celled beings to complex mammals—reproduces to preserve its lineage. Humans reproduce sexually, and through this natural process, generations continue to flourish. In Islam, parents blessed with more children are appreciated, and there is no restriction on the number of children a couple may have. The belief is simple: Allah provides for every living being. Whatever is written for us at birth—our sustenance, our provisions—shall reach us no matter what. Allah plans in ways far beyond human understanding, and it is He who ensures our survival even when we are in our mother’s womb.
The nine-month gestation period is itself a miracle. A baby receives nourishment without consuming external food or breathing outside air. It is only Allah who sustains life within the placenta and allows a child to grow safely. This alone is enough proof that He is the best of planners.
When Should One Marry?
Religion offers clarity on this matter. When a boy or girl reaches puberty and their biological systems mature, they are naturally ready for marriage. However, to prevent exploitation and ensure maturity, modern laws in India set the minimum marriage age at 18 for women and 21 for men. These laws aim to stop child marriage and give young people time to develop mentally, emotionally and socially. Marriage, after all, is not just about two individuals coming together—it is about building a stable future rooted in responsibility and mutual respect.
A Personal Journey: The Day My Life Changed
Every person who marries experiences a unique emotional transformation. Marriage day comes only once for the majority—more than 90 percent of people marry only once in their lives. Regardless of social status, whether one is a VIP or a common citizen, this day brings unmatched joy. It is a moment when a person feels truly celebrated, respected and honoured.
We capture these memories through photographs, videos and heartfelt moments shared with friends, family and loved ones. In Kashmir, marriage ceremonies are incomplete without the grand wazwan, featuring around 20 exquisite dishes, cooked with love and tradition. Rituals, songs, blessings and laughter add colour to the celebration, creating memories that last a lifetime.
On 25 August 2025, I entered this beautiful bond. The gathering was large—friends, relatives, neighbours and well-wishers all joined to bless us. I felt grateful, emotional and deeply thankful to Allah for choosing this moment for me. Seeing my parents’ happiness, my relatives’ smiles and the warm blessings around me filled my heart with peace.
The moment the nikah was solemnised, I felt a profound sense of responsibility. It was as if I had stepped into a new world—one where caring for another soul became my duty and privilege. Marriage teaches patience, sacrifice, understanding, loyalty and partnership. It marks the beginning of a new chapter that continues, InshaAllah, till the last breath.
That night, I kept thanking Allah for His blessings, strength and kindness. People hugged me, congratulated me and prayed for our future. I prayed for my wife too—that Allah grants her health, happiness and a life filled with His mercy.
Alhamdulillah, I am married now. I humbly request everyone to keep us in your prayers. May Allah bless every couple and shower His mercy upon the entire Ummah. Ameen.
