Never Surrender to Despair

BB Desk

Dr. Aftab Jan

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In today’s world, pain clings to countless hearts like an unyielding shadow. Everywhere, souls bear silent scars, tears hide behind fragile smiles, and minds wrestle with relentless unrest. Humanity seems caught in a relentless storm of sorrow. People wear masks of joy while their hearts weep; families pose for photographs but live divided; societies glitter with wealth yet starve for compassion. Hopelessness festers, fed by betrayal, greed, and selfishness. Love has been reduced to transactions, trust eroded into doubt, and faith in humanity replaced by fear of being used or forgotten. We are more connected through screens than souls, more aware of distant events than our neighbors’ struggles, more focused on projecting an image than living authentically. Yet, the Qur’an offers a beacon of hope, declaring: “Do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful” (Surah Az-Zumar 39:53).

The Wound of Broken Trust

Trust, once the bedrock of relationships, now lies shattered. Promises are made lightly and broken easily. Friends betray, spouses deceive, siblings bicker over inheritance, and colleagues undermine each other for gain. In times past, a handshake held more weight than a contract; today, even signatures falter. Parents pour love into their children, only to face disobedience; spouses entrust their hearts, only to be wounded by lies. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ warned: *“When honesty is lost, then wait for the Hour”* (Bukhari). This prophecy mirrors our era, where dishonesty breeds despair. Yet, believers must hold fast: every betrayal is witnessed, every tear is counted, and Allah’s justice, though delayed, is certain.

The Poison of Greed

Greed has devoured the soul of society, turning money into a false deity. Marriages are judged not by love or character but by dowries, lavish venues, and displays of wealth. Poor girls linger unwed, rejected for their families’ lack of means, while the wealthy squander fortunes on ostentation. Siblings, once bonded by shared meals, now clash over inheritance. Neighbors, who once broke bread together, now live as strangers behind locked doors. The Qur’an condemns this obsession: “And you consume inheritance, devouring it altogether, and you love wealth with immense love” (Surah Al-Fajr 89:19–20). Greed fuels stress, fractures families, and breeds illness, yet believers are called to find contentment in Allah’s decree, for true wealth lies in a heart at peace.

The Emptiness of False Connections

Social media fills lives with countless “friends” but leaves hearts hollow. Birthday wishes flood online, yet no one brings comfort in times of sickness. Infidelity and fleeting romances shatter homes, leaving men lost in sin, women in silent grief, and children in fractured families. Youth chase shallow ideals, only to awaken with broken spirits. Envy and comparison, fueled by curated online lives, steal peace. The Qur’an warns: “Do not wish for that by which Allah has made some of you exceed others” (Surah An-Nisa 4:32). Yet, even in this chaos, Allah promises: “Indeed, with hardship comes ease” (Surah Ash-Sharh 94:6). Patience transforms bitterness into sweetness for those who endure.

The Neglect of Parents

Parents, once cherished as treasures, are now often cast aside. Children, who once saw serving their parents as a blessing, now view it as a burden. Nursing homes brim with mothers and fathers whose eyes ache for their children’s faces, rarely seen. These parents, who sacrificed sleepless nights, are left to languish in loneliness. The Prophet ﷺ taught: “Paradise lies under the feet of your mother” (Nasa’i). Neglecting them curses not just families but society itself. Yet, believers must trust that every parental tear reaches Allah, and His justice never wavers.

The Spread of Corruption

Corruption rages like wildfire. Leaders deceive their people, workers betray their employers, and even students cheat for grades. Faith is flaunted for show, charity given for fame, and religion twisted for power. The Qur’an exposes such hypocrisy: “They [think to] deceive Allah and those who believe, but they deceive not except themselves and perceive [it] not” (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:9). Corruption hollows nations, but believers must cling to hope, for Allah protects the sincere and replaces the corrupt with those who uphold truth.

The Silent Struggles of Youth

Young hearts bear heavy burdens. Students buckle under academic and career pressures, while social media sets unattainable standards of beauty and success. Depression, addiction, and even suicide—once rare—now haunt the young. The Prophet ﷺ offered timeless wisdom: *“If the Hour is about to be established and one of you has a sapling in his hand, then let him plant it”* (Musnad Ahmad). Even at the world’s end, a believer sows hope. This is Islam’s call: to persevere, no matter how dark the horizon.

The Wounds of a Bleeding World

Wars, oppression, and bloodshed scar the earth. Palestine weeps, Kashmir aches, Syria mourns, and countless lands drown in sorrow. World powers turn away, and humanity grows numb. The Qur’an denounces such chaos: “And when it is said to them, ‘Do not cause corruption on the earth,’ they say, ‘We are but reformers.’ Unquestionably, it is they who are the corrupters” (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:11–12). Yet, believers must hold firm, for Allah, Al-‘Adl (the Most Just), ensures justice prevails.

The Fracture of Families

Homes, meant to be havens, often harbor strife. Siblings sever ties over wealth, spouses live as strangers, and children grow amid discord. Loneliness plagues even crowded lives. The Prophet ﷺ urged: *“The most beloved of deeds to Allah is that you bring happiness to your Muslim brother, or relieve him of distress”* (Tabarani). Yet, instead of easing pain, many add to it. Still, believers must trust that Allah sees their struggles and offers solace in His mercy.

The Anchor of Hope

Though hopelessness looms, Islam is the lifeline that steadies the believer. The Qur’an promises that dawn follows the darkest night, spring emerges from the harshest winter, and healing mends the deepest wounds: *“So verily, with the hardship, there is ease”* (Surah Ash-Sharh 94:5). Allah’s mercy surpasses all sins. A broken heart finds refuge in prayer, a silent tear is seen by the Lord of the Worlds, and a fallen believer rises closer to Allah with every step. No matter how often you stumble, His forgiveness is near.

Never lose hope when betrayal stings, for Allah never betrays. Never lose hope when society rejects, for Allah accepts. Never lose hope when sins overwhelm, for Allah forgives. Never lose hope when dreams shatter, for Allah replaces them with better. The Qur’an assures: *“And whoever relies upon Allah – then He is sufficient for him”* (Surah At-Talaq 65:3). People may fail, wealth may deceive, and the world may wound, but Allah is always enough. Hold fast to hope, for after every night, the dawn will rise.