Less is More
As the marriage season blooms in the rural areas of our beloved Valley, homes are filled with joy, music, and the aroma of wazwan. Weddings are a time to celebrate love, unity, and togetherness. However, amidst the festivities, the pressure to show off often overshadows the true essence of these occasions. Lavish displays and extravagant spending can burden families, turning a joyful event into a source of stress. This season, let us reflect on embracing simplicity, prioritizing meaningful traditions, and saving more for what truly matters.
The heart of a Kashmiri wedding lies in its warmth and the shared happiness of loved ones. The guest list need not be endless to prove our hospitality. Inviting close family, friends, and community members who genuinely share in the couple’s joy creates a more intimate and memorable celebration. A thoughtfully curated guest list reduces costs and allows families to focus on creating heartfelt moments rather than competing for grandeur.
Wazwan, the soul of our weddings, is a feast that brings people together. While its rich dishes like rogan josh, yakhni, and gushtaba are cherished, we can prepare reasonable quantities to avoid waste. Emphasizing quality over excess ensures that every bite is savored, and resources are used wisely. By planning the menu with care, families can honor tradition without straining their budgets.
The money saved by simplifying weddings can be invested in the couple’s future—education, a home, or a secure start to their journey together. Let us shift our focus from non-essential expenses to building lasting happiness. This marriage season, let’s celebrate love with sincerity, cherish our traditions, and create memories that outshine any showoff. Simplicity is the true elegance of a Kashmiri wedding.
